3 Tips To Help In Your Fight For Custody

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Child custody is one of the most difficult elements of a divorce. Who gets custody of the kids? What do you do about visitation and holidays? How can you get through this aspect of the divorce without everyone coming unwound? This blog contains information and tips about child custody arrangements during and after a divorce and advice about what your attorney can do for you. It is my hope that my personal experience of going through a divorce and having custody arrangements made and altered a few different times will help you get through the process a little easier than I did.

3 Tips To Help In Your Fight For Custody

10 March 2016
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Going through a divorce is hard enough, but having to fight to spend time with your children is even harder. If you are struggling to come to terms with your ex and are going through a nasty custody battle, you want to make sure you do everything in your power to spend as much time as you can with your children. To help make sure you get what you want, here are three tips to help you succeed in your fight for custody.

Make sure you go to every hearing as ordered.

Regardless of how unimportant you might think a hearing is, you need to make sure you are there at all costs. Missing out on a hearing allows the other party to step in and get what they want. By being there, you can make sure they aren't able to take advantage of the situation and get more than they deserve. You can have your voice heard and make sure the judge is able to make an informed decision about what is in the best interest of the children, not a one-sided story.

Document as much as you can.

When going through a nasty battle with your ex, you need to make sure you document as much as you possibly can. Write down dates and times of visits, how long you spent with the children, what you did and any other important information. If the kids tell you something that the other parent is doing that doesn't sit well with you, write it down and let your attorney know about it. They can then work on developing a case around that new information in your case.

Be the bigger person.

Even though you might be furious with your ex, you need to make sure you aren't showing it. Going into court and acting immature will not get you anywhere. It isn't going to look good in front of the judge. Make sure you always act in a calm and professional manner, regardless of what you might be feeling on the inside. Don't allow your emotions to get the best of you when fighting for custody of your children.

By implementing the three tips above, you can make sure to get the custody that you want. Don't allow the other party to step in and do whatever they choose when you have the power to let your voice be heard and make a difference. For more information, contact a custody lawyer